Boho Bride

When I was planning my wedding I would spend ages looking at various sites such as Rock n roll bride etc. And more often than not I would end up crying because I am just not that cool or funky to have such a wedding as that.

In the end I removed all wedding related blogs from my RSS feed because they just depressed the hell out of me. I did it all with lots of talks with my now husband, my mum and the support of friends and some wonderful suppliers. And I held true to my beliefs of what I wanted a wedding to be- or at least, learnt to discuss, negotiate and compromise.

Imagine my shock when my photographer asked if I would like to share my story with Boho Bride? And that she wanted to feature it on her site because it was so unusual. So here it is.

Oh the irony, I am that cool and funky. And when will I ever get over needing to meet other people’s approval!

So there you go, lots more pics and some more details of my story if you are even vaguely interested! And more on my amazing photographer’s site. If you need a photographer for anything in Essex/Cambridge I highly, highly recommend her. 

Some wedding pics

On a lighter and happier note, as requested!

These are not the official photos – they won’t be along for a while yet. But these were taken by my friends

signing at the registry office

At the altar

it really was a rather fantastic day

Married!

So, there is a reason I haven’t posted for the past few months, over and above laziness that is I have been planning a wedding, getting married and going on honeymoon. It has been a stressful time, but so worth the effort!

I have never been the sort of person to dream of a wedding, so when we decided to get married I wasn’t sure what I wanted to have – except I knew it wasn’t going to be overly traditional.

So, we got married at the registry office, went to a barn, had the handfasting and then had a really chilled out day – it was actually sunny, which was amazing considering the first three weeks of July had rained solidly.

We are not formal people, I live in jeans and doc martens in the winter – jeans and birkenstocks in the summer and so I wanted to steer clear of anything overly formal. We wanted people to have fun and sit around and chat – and that is exactly what happened! We were very happy.

I wanted everything to be as fairtrade/local as possible, so the florist learnt all about local flowers, the food was all local and the dress was made in Surrey. I made loads of bunting, I saved lots of jars and a friend helped paint them. Another friend made the cake, my OH made the cake topper and there wasn’t a chair covering in sight. My jewellery  was fairtrade metals and made in England. Then I lost the plot and bought 4 purple blankets from Tesco – for £1.50 each. Fairly sure there wasn’t fairtrade involved in that, but mistakes happen.

I enjoyed the day, although I didn’t really eat any of the food and I just couldn’t let go of the stage manager/events manager side of myself, so I spent quite a lot of time organising people. My top tip would be to have a stage manager for the day!

I haven’t decided if I want to share some photos on here yet, I will talk to my OH. But I will tell you something – the dress wasn’t white!

Oh and thanks to Ecoyogini - I blatantly stole her idea and it was great!

I am very happy to be married to my wonderful other half!

 

Looking forward

So, tomorrow I start my new job at the college where I did my placement during my PGCE year. I am greatly looking forward to it and yet still have that new job slight anxiety and sickness feeling. I need a lot of sleep to function well and ironically I tend to turn into a bit of an insommniac at times like this, so I am tired to boot!

I am also rather apprehensive that as soon as I go back to work I am going to get ill, my OH has been ill all over the Christmas break, as have the vast majority of my friends and family. I have managed to escape from all of the winter illness, which is not like me at all. Hopefully being in a school enviornment has toughened my immune system.

Normally I don’t do new year resolutions at all, but this year I felt rather compelled to make some life goals for me. But ones which are kind and achieveable, rather than expecting too much of myself. So here they are, with a short explanation:

To run 5K without walking

I have taken up running again and I am making slow, but steady progress and to get back to a level of fitness that I used to have I want to be able to run 5K without taking a walking break. Currently I can walk/run 5K in 40 mins, but I can only run for 20 without a break. So, a gentle, steady practice is the way foward.

To train for, and run, a 10K race without injuring myself

Now, for most people it would be a given that they would want to be in a 10k race and not injure themselves. However I have signed up for 3 10Ks now and each time I have dislocated my hip in the training process. This is because I focus on a goal and just go for it hell for leather, regardless of steady progression. So, I am reading running magazines and paying attention to the 10% increase of mileage a week. Hopefully I will get there without any dislocations. Incase you were wondering the dislocation is as a result of hyper-mobility; which basically means I am too flexible for my own good. Most of the time it is not a problem at all, I just have to be a bit aware of myself!

To have a happy and enjoyable wedding

Hopefully the reasons why are quite obvious! We are getting married at the end of July and it suddenly all seems rather close!

To finish my quilt

My mum is an amazing patchworker and I have seen the work that goes into it and I just don’t have the patience for it at all. Or the attention to detail; however I do like embroidery and the idea of a quilt, so after taking my mum’s advice I have started on making big squares of embroidery and then using patchwork to put them together. The idea being that the embroidery is like mini pictures, which is then framed  by the rest of the fabric.

I have just completed the last embroidery square and so the next phase is to start to put it together and then the actual quilting.

I have deliberatley done this project as a ‘slow burn’ and doing the individual squares has meant that I have felt a sense of achievement each time I have completed a square. This next bit, however, is the long haul and I want to make sure that I don’t run out of steam before it is completed!

To do my grade 3 exam in the flute

Music has always been a really important part of my life and I have just started to have lessons in the flute again. Although grade 3 is not very high it is where I am at and I get a great sense of enjoyment out of it. Although I will probably not be able to afford as many lessons as I have been doing, I am hoping to be able to do enough to get through my grade 3 this year.

To enjoy work

After my false start in my teaching career I am hoping that this will get me back on track again to start enjoying the work. Teaching in the Further Education (16 year old +) sector is very poorly paid and you really must enjoy it to do it!

To find additional work

I am very pleased to have enough work to pay my bills, but I really do need to find some other work as well, otherwise I am not going to have much of a life at all. So I am looking for additional teaching work to supplement the hours at my local college.

So, that’s my plans for this calendar year. What about you?